To be a woman is like being on a perpetual roller coaster that rides rainbows of color…(translation: dramatic) yes …we are very dramatic- but without the ‘drama’ life would be like a meal without salt…bland -boring- just plain DULL. Women are genetically aesthetic, we like to wear makeup, pretty clothes, and set the dinner table with matching dishes and fancy napkins. Whereas a man is happy in his ‘home’ pants, and eating from the packaged container, we on the other hand like to decorate our lives (and everyone and everything in it.) Sometimes we decorate it with tangible things, and sometimes we add drama and tension and amplify problems. After all it’s better to feel things in technicolor then nothing at all right?
I guess we all know that the nuts and bolts of being a woman have always been about giving birth and taking care of your family but oh how this has changed, yet not changed at the same time. We follow our dreams, and move forth in life less fearless than ever before, even if we are afraid, we hide it like a deep dark secret, and jump into everything that piques our curiosity, be it a field of study, a job or a relationship. Men have always been labelled as the ones who are solid and steady and predictable, giving us the luxury to be more colorful with our emotions & moods, because we feel things more deeply because well…we are women😊it’s just the way it is. If someone asked me to define precisely the role of a woman, I think that would be an utmost difficult task as it is a role that is always changing according to one’s mood, the time of day and the angle of their position in life, (family, business or personal view so to speak) I mean you could be super authoritative in one area while being, vulnerable and soft in another. There is no one size fits all. It’s more like a complicated order of Starbucks: venti/no foam/double shot/2 sugars/fat free/extra hot latte.
As women we like to believe we have great instincts, and trust out gut or intuition for most matters, but at the same time we like to use analytics and ask 50 friends for their opinion on the matter and then we group those opinions to match our initial gut instinct😉 Because we don’t know everything, but we know what we know, and even if we don’t know… we definitely have an opinion.
We love to take care of everyone around us, to nurture and create, and to live this life to the fullest like a fresh bouquet of flowers- because to be a woman is exhilarating and exciting- don’t get me wrong it is not all roses sometimes there are those cactus moments, but overall we seem to be wired to always find the sweet spot for everything.
Happy Women’s day!