Usually I love writing this blog…how to be sexy, look sexy, and everything & anything lingerie…but for the very first time I’m not really sure what we should be feeling excited about. And do we really want to wear sexy lingerie when our (I will speak for the majority😉) roots are showing, our nails are a myriad of different lengths and patience and enthusiasm for anything is ‘limited’. Classic razors are now back in style, and those tweezers that you have in the back of your bathroom drawer are a hot commodity as are your boyfriend/husband’s square nail clippers.
In this time of anxiety, fear and just all-around stress, (made worse by this incessant need to have a dessert after every meal) …really how do you even feel sexy? I mean feeling just ‘ok’ is a feat in itself.
People are in one of two groups, quarantined with their significant other or quarantined alone, feel free to add the ‘with kids’ topping to either group. So how do you dress sexy for yourself? Or even if you are with your BF etc, you have probably just seen parts of each other never before encountered… physically & non physically😳🤷♀️. Desire needs mystery, needs secrets and (space)…the very things that are difficult to have right now. Going through this devastating time is like being on a roller coaster, no two days are alike, even though all the days seem like one never ending long day, and waves of emotion seem to come and go during the ebb and flow of this new ‘in house’ routine.
Personally, I have realized that despite this, it is still in our nature as females to still want to look pretty, to get out of the grey sweats even if its only for a small part of the day. To maybe try a fancy robe or cape. I also realized that most people think of wearing lingerie as something like fishing, you wear it when you want to catch something/someone. But actually, it’s about making yourself feel a certain way. It can be all about you, to switch your mood like playing your favorite music or fixing your hair. Maybe lingerie can be a frivolous tonic amidst this crazy time, even if its only every now and then.
Stay Safe & Stay Sexy,